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Sorry to hear your very worrying news, I hope your brother is found safe and sound soon.
You're in my thoughts.
Lyn
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thank u just spoke my sis in law bless her 1st nite shift no hubby had to pay child carer do sleep over,6 days now got stay home in case he rings me. hope he will and i can persuade him come home. or just to say hes ok. feel il keep this myslef now no more sharing about situation. melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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Big hugs Melly, and here when u need us xxxxx
Still praying for you xxxxx
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Thank u,had call tonight to say he rang his work,and was on route to seeing a doctor for help,that seen in London and spoken to his wife to say coming home soon. so good news,feeling so angry,to hear my parents crying on phone to me,his poor wofe so anxious and boys such shock nightmares where daddy. hes got letter from his work to say will be discplinary action taken this time,if doesnr eply he was to be put into action of possible losing job. ive not felt like saying on here anymore,but as you ask and shared so kindly your exp with this kind situation i can feel you understand. needless say im in lot anguish ,pain,with a relieved feeling he going home. a probarbly life got to much. hope your ok as can be,and your uncle getting along well you said test to have done,if im remebering right. nite melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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Hi Melly,
Thank God he's OK and is going to go home! I've been thinking of you constantly and I'm so relieved for you all!
Please continue to let us know because we all care so much for you x x
Joanna
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Good news Mel  Sophie x
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ohh thankyou yes no more news,said to be seeing a gp at A and E,then home so that to me just means depression has hit him suddenly again,thats so sweet of you thinking of us. we like twins behave similar ways,something i never knew till lived with him and his amazing wify.shes 1 in million,the oldest boy had go gp yesterday he developed a big nervy twitch both eyes while daddy gone,speical needs.he 11,the child minder ahs eben fab doing sleep overs to help my sis in law so could still do her job. shes a nurse also. melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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Glad u got some news, Melly what a relief for alll the family,
It is v hard illness to understand, I used to feel angry / get such strong emotions, depression is an illness that can overpower the family as well and the person,
Bit unsure bout his workplace actions - depression is an often misunderstood illness, he should tho' be covered by Disability Discrimination Act, hope he has some support workwise, you sound like you are good support for sister in law just being there for her is so important
take care Melly
& Thanks for asking, things ticking along here, Uncle quite cheerful taking each day at a time xxxxx
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Pleased you've got some good news Melly.
Hope he can gets the help he needs.
Love Paula
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Glad some good news melly, been thinking of all of you x BARBARA
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Hello your welcome lizzie ticking along ok thats good hear,and your uncle doing good lovely. . yes we all felt very low your hitting nail on its head there. no further news his work i believe are now to be more gracious as he called before letter sent out,he will be given treatment threw gp time off work and counselling. no further news,sis in law at work all weekend .and im battling toothache,not long now 10th so 1 week i a manage......... thank u barbs. had to resort to wired connection for laptop been ages now wont stay connected wirelessly it is only 1gb memory so probarbly why,may get a new memory can upgrade it to 3gb. had a low mood time yesterday seemed to cut of even close friends.lol melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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Updated today Hi Folks well the wanderer has returned home as of Sunday morning and was off on his travle again small distance to see Gp locally,s we the wanderers family all feeling very relieved. and praying hoping he keeps his feet firmly on local ground this time,anger has surpassed and family reunited in manner of speaking. not much of an example our dad drinker most of time,1 aunt gone due to same sorrufl pastime of same liking. one sickly hubby off back to work thursday,me ploddong along rather stumblsome due to giddy episdoes of to many today,face like red beetroot Lupus revenge of family woes aftermath. news pacthes,rashes all coming out to play so im Armed with E45,planequil and if no stale mate off to rheumy nurse i shall go. tooth lying doormant and so he better as hes gonna get good seeing to next monday dental hospital. yep thats me. Melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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O Melly,
Hope the E45 etc Army works well and will bring some relief,
You deserve a treat now - some time to just kick back and relax doing something chillin', something just for you xx
Take care,
Love and huggs ~ Liz xxxxx
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Thank God he's home, Melly. I hope he gets the help he needs.
Take care.
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 Thankyou things bit iffy on western front,the wanderer really did wander with no idea where he was goign what he was doing sems completley dazed.gp has acted fast with medics supplies of strong anti depressanmts. 2 weeks sick leave for starters,re started his help meeetings and also counselling threw church minster couple this weekend at home with kdis shipped off to grandpa for enetrtaining. his spouse in mad modds not surpised,bless her. me e45 lol not alot help,left hand gone onto action of red fingers,cold then hot sore enrvy bits weird stuff thinking caps on. hubby to rescue filled in my dle forms re applying runs out its all changed here on western front i need support not hubby any more. hes doing food,shopping,working and im stumbling about all giddy for last 24 hours the enemy been on war path. well hubby says he will fight the enemy with me on resting action plan,meds and if no improvment attempt taking me gp. over out sleep time. melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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ps mums got eye infection,dad got the army enermy of lupus evry angry at his dorstep but hes fighting back. i had treat of food take out not supposed to so its a one of treat. got movie may watch it tomorrow. nite ovelies thanks replying. so prayers wanderer meets mum coffee tomorrow and enemy who holding his vocie in is shut up with tablets and lest his voice out as to what going on. all this amde me so worried but ok now chatted ot lupus mate prayed.much better now ta melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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